Friday, October 30, 2015

Year Two, Week 18 (70th Weekly Video!)


In this video:
*Cancelled therapy, RIP car
*new bloodwork order
*no med waiver update, did get approved for PLSA
*OT Re-evaluation
*waving and "give me" more consistently
*dressing up for Halloween
*loving puzzles and asking us for homeschooling work!
*ABA and OT clashing…
*Pumpkin Patch field trip
*Sensory Fail and a Sensory Win



Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Fozzie and Julia...My Perspective.

A friend of mine tagged me in this article {LINK}. Someone with a high functioning older son on the spectrum wrote about how she thinks Fozzie might be autistic, but he's accepted as just "himself" because he wasn't labelled. A lot like her son. And it was published in the NEW YORK TIMES, obviously a well known and widespread publication, which instantly gives her words more weight.

Something about this blog post really bugged me..."would we have thought of Fozzie differently if we'd been told he had autism? Maybe."

That's wonderful that your son is on the spectrum but easily passes as "a typical quirky teenager". Truly. That's fantastic. And it's nice that Fozzie has so many quirks but is able to just be Fozzie because no one "labelled" him.

photo from NYT article


BUT...That's ONE end of the spectrum. And stories like this set children like mine BACK because mainstream people that only have experience with neurotypical children read stuff like this and think "see? autism is just a bunch of quirks! We should just treat these kids like they're *normal*, not label them, and everything will work out. The label is damaging."

Nope. Label or not, my son cannot yet speak. Label or not, my son has very large difficulties with sensory overload, coordination, and social connections. And whether or not anyone knows he has autism, he can't exactly be described as "just a quirky kid".

It's tricky to have ONE character (like Julia) represent such a wide range of symptoms as those associated with autism. It IS a spectrum, after all. But the fact that we ARE labeling her and introducing her to neurotypical children so that they are prepared to try relate to kids like my son is a HUGE step in the right direction, IMO.

My point? Don't be afraid of a label. Also, it's not okay to print things like this (talking to you, New York Times) without offering a "flip side" to open a dialogue and truly represent the SPECTRUM that is autism.

Friday, October 23, 2015

Friday, October 16, 2015

Year Two, Week 16 (68th Weekly Video!)


In this video:
*sick, fever for 24 hours
*skipped a lot of therapies, but did great when he WAS there
*hearing test update, NO SEDATED TEST NECESSARY!
*3 whole hours of therapy in a row!
*out of cod liver oil
*discovered the toilet and the never ending fun of flushing
*seeing the MAPS doctor again

Remember, we appreciate any and all donations to our GoFundMe to help with Bu's medical expenses!!!

We love you!!! AND YAY, NO SEDATION!!!!!!


Friday, October 9, 2015

Year Two, Week 15 (67th Weekly Video!)



In this post:
*new hangout spot: the shower?
*lost ALL the shoes
*on all the supplements again, possibly affecting his night waking?
*Officially started our Pre-K-4 curriculum, check out details coming soon on my personal blog!
*Medicaid Waiver diagnosis through state psychologist
*EEG never happenedlong story!
*Next week, second attempt at sleep-deprived hearing test

(NOTE: This "experiment" with Benedryl was suggested by the specialist and is being monitored by our doctor. DO NOT attempt this without speaking to your doctor first!!!)





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Tuesday, October 6, 2015

Our DAS Experience - Updated September 2015



Some information on the changes to the DAS at Disney World since the last DAS video we posted. This is accurate as of September 27, 2015.

UPDATE: all information still accurate as of March 2017, which was our last WDW trip.




Friday, October 2, 2015

Year Two, Week 14 (66th Weekly Video!)


In this video:
*Missing MANY supplements, and people are noticing!
*Missed a couple shots, but made them up
*Caught a cold at Disney!
*No ABA for almost a week, but he's doing great!
*Pediatrician visit
*Next week: Med Waiver Evaluation and 48-hour Ambulatory EEG